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BENT AND BROKEN, BUT – I HOPE – INTO A BETTER SHAPE.


“My friend committed suicide yesterday.”

“My neighbour was found hanging in her room today.”





These are the talks we run over in the current situation. Have you at any point considered what number of individuals commit suicide through the span of one year? In 2016 the number of suicides in India had expanded to 230,314 becoming the most widely recognized reason for death in the age gatherings of 15–39 years. Introverts or Extroverts, anybody can turn into the prey of this dysfunctional behaviour. You may see individuals laughing, grinning, and making the most of their lives and Alas! You here the news of their suicide. Have you ever thought about the reason for this? All things considered, the word we toss around so effectively these days is "Depression"- when everything feels excessively low that it appears to dominate, overpowering you such in a way that you could not have imagined before. There were times when you were happy and delighted with your life and now you wonder how you ever enjoyed anything at all. You wonder what others have that you cannot get it together of. You drag yourself during each time and discover it hard to have a peaceful sleep at night. You get demotivated by all the minor mistakes you make therefore plunging into the period of upsetting and stressful life. What is it that happens within you? Why are you against something? These are the questions that hover over your mind. Your vitality begins draining in this way influencing your psychological state and perhaps the stress to do anything is significantly greater. All these are the consequences of improper self-care, stressful life, overthinking, low self-esteem, and giving a lot of yourself to other people. We are not generally mindful of why and how this occurs and this minor issue turns into a significant issue resulting in the suicidal death of the person. The unfortunate reality with individuals right now is that for most people, maturity will not happen without knowing sadness and pain. Otherwise, they never understand what is happening with them and with anybody else around them.

Is there any treatment to defeat this issue? Can't we simply expel this issue from our society by the wave of an enchantment wand? There a couple of ways that encourage us in building an uplifting depression and boosting up our self-confidence.

We, as a whole, have contemplated our future objectives.

  • If something turns out badly with your goals, adopt a "what would I be able to gain from this?" attitude and not a "this is the reason I'm horrible" mentality. Likewise, be cautious when comparing your progress with others. We usually compare our progress with another person’s and this is unfair anyhow.

  • Set aside some effort to see what went well today, not exactly what went wrong. Consider keeping an appreciation diary.

  • Connect every now and again with others that bring you up (not individuals that cut you down). While it's OK to have some alone time, discover an equalization, and don't separate yourself or the downturn will wait.

  • Staying awake late in the night without any reason and overthinking on the issue which will not hold any meaning when seen from bigger prospect learn to avoid them.


  • Try to mentor yourself and don't let situations change your life.


“Let us all promise ourselves to fight this battle and win the life of success.

Let us all promise ourselves to never leave hope, even when our brain tells us there isn’t.

Let us all promise to give ourselves another day, another chance to find our courage eventually.”

“Don’t let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was.” —Richard L. Evans






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Zafra Quader

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