Alone! No
I've measured the ranges of the Andes with my feet. I've lost my way while counting my footsteps at the banks of Nile. I've searched for some water to drink in the mid-Atlantic. I've tried walking naked for miles in Oymyakon. The Sahara showered mercy, giving me a shade for a minute. I was out of control while thinking about me at the Pamir.
Finally, I've a feeling. This feeling is the outcome of every emotion that I've gone through.May be some day I'll ask myself, why? why ain't I tried sharing this to somebody who can sort things? Why am I in a State of deep regret? Yes I got one guy, may be he is not so skilled in dealing these kinds of things but it's always worth sharing.-sarga
Life is a single-dimensional entity that starts, stays for a while and ends. But, the belief is that life has many dimensions in it. At the end of every scenario and circumstance, one will move forward with a convinced state of mind and with a feeling, "This is common in life and it is life".
The complexity arises only with our very own perspectives and the dimensions which crop up with everyone's perspectives. It is an age-old custom to humans to compromise when it comes to things, one can't handle it and let them be in their own fashion.
It is all because of the belief that " It is so common in life".The one who cares much about fixing things which are tough and almost impossible will stay there and experiences downfall is what the people say.
The one who is trying to fix things has some other perspective towards the issue and hoping that everything will come out well. The general perspectives of people would be, It is a pure waste of time", "one will try this because of his madness " and so on.
The people who are trying to live a not compromised life will always question themselves, why things are the way they are and why can't I change it , f I don't like them to be in that fashion. They do themselves a favor by trying to fix them.
It is not that they are so afraid of the consequences that arise if they don't fix them, it is because they don't want to find themselves in a regretful situation in the future just by not trying to fix things. Considering the same situation they don't succeed every time in fixing things, But the peach that they draw just by giving a try is immense.
Emotions that we come across our life are never the same in terms of amount and weight. My perspective about emotions is if we consider the unit particle from every emotion then, They are not equal in weight.
If we take every emotion in equal quantity then they don't possess equal weights. The emotion which has more weight in my perspective is pain. Pain always comes in a pure state. A small amount of pain and a big amount of happiness will put an equal amount of weight on our mind and heart.
Pain always blows one's mind and will tend the individual to escape from reality. Pain always has an impact on the abilities of an individual. The ability to try and fix the things will vanish due to its impact on our invisible senses. I too, did find it very tough to handle and it made me very unstable. Pain is trickster. At the time of this bad transition, one will always want a solution to get out of it. Majority of the people who are finding it tough to fix they have something in their minds. self-respect that something is, sometimes they believe that it cost their self-respect if they show the struggle outside. Sometimes they believe that the people are not so good at dealing with this kind of scenario and it is mere waste of asking for a solution and they tell themselves many other reasons.
One big thing is if at all you want to fix the things then there is no rule that you have to do it alone. it doesn't matter the people in your team are skilled or not to deal with it.
But, init is always a good practice seeking help if necessary instead of telling yourself some reasons that convinces you not to take help.
Pain is not a small thing to fix and it is always better to share it with the people that you know, people that you believe, people who care for you.Don't find yourself in a regretful situation in the future because you didn't seek help, you didn't put faith on your own people. Try it, it works.
Author:
Sriram
Editor:
Prashant
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